The Parents' Guide to LGBT History Month

Feb 16, 2023
3 min read

Updated: Jul 22

LGBT History Month takes place in February each year to mark the history and celebrate the achievements of lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender (LGBT) people. It’s not just about the past, but also the present and future, providing an opportunity to educate ourselves and our children about the contributions LGBT individuals and communities make, and to challenge the stereotypes and discrimination they often face by promoting equality and acceptance.

Why LGBT History Month is relevant to teens

As parents, it’s important to understand the value for teens in seeing LGBT role models who are open and proud about their identities. This can be a powerful thing, especially for teenagers who may be uncertain about their own identity. Many teens feel self-conscious about expressing themselves if they feel it could conflict with parental expectations or societal norms. This might hold them back from exploring, developing and discovering their true self, leaving them feeling isolated and alone. Seeing positive role models can help them feel more optimistic about being accepted for who they are if they’re LGBT, and help demonstrate acceptance and tolerance if they’re not.

LGBT challenges

In the past, LGBT people have been marginalised and hidden from history. They were often denied basic rights and faced discrimination and persecution. Fortunately, society has come a long way and acknowledges this isn’t the way it should be, but discrimination still exists. Bullying and hate crimes occur regularly in the UK, the LGBT community experiences higher rates of anxiety and depression than the general population, and many groups still don’t acknowledge LGBT people. Education is a vital way of helping us take steps towards a more inclusive and accepting society with equal opportunities for everyone.

What happens in LGBT History Month?

LGBT History Month provides a platform for the voices and experiences of LGBT individuals and communities. There are many events, such as lectures, workshops and performances, across the UK. By taking part in these, we all do our part to promote awareness and understanding, as well as offering an opportunity for dialogue and engagement. There will be events local to you, and you can discover some on the LGBT History Month website.

Ways you can support your teen from home

As parents, you’ll want to create a supportive environment for your teen to learn and grow. This includes enabling them to discuss things at home. Listening is key, especially if you find LGBT issues challenging, because it lets your teen express and explore their feelings in a safe environment with people who care about them. Here are some ideas on how you can get involved:

Have a conversation

Talking helps your teen gain a better understanding of the experiences and challenges faced by LGBT people, and encourages them to ask questions and express their thoughts and feelings. You don’t need to know all the issues or have all the answers, but it’s vital to approach these conversations with an open mind and a non-judgemental attitude.

Research some facts

There’s no need to know everything, but it might help to build your own understanding of the issues LGBT communities face today. Stonewall is a great starting place with excellent resources.

Encourage your teen to attend an event, and join them if they’re comfortable with it

This demonstrates your acceptance and can help families learn and grow together. Even if you don’t go, they can talk to you about it afterwards.

Provide support

Encouraging your children to respect and support their LGBT friends and classmates is an important step in promoting equality and acceptance. This includes teaching them to use inclusive language and to treat all people with respect and kindness, regardless of their sexual orientation or gender identity. Support them in speaking out against discrimination and prejudice if they witness it.

Help and more information

If your teen is LGBT+ and you’d like to know more about how you can understand and support them, there are lots of resources available, including Child Welfare, FFLAG and Children 1st.