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Helping your teen get on the road

Seeing your child in the driver's seat for the first time is quite a big deal, to say the least. It's a milestone that's bound to give any parent a heap of mixed emotions. You're not just passing them the car keys; you're steering them towards becoming responsible drivers and independent individuals. It's about equipping them with more than just the ability to parallel park or master the three-point turn; it's about readying them to navigate life's broader challenges. 


Driving instructor going through the driving report with male teen


Laying the Groundwork - helping your teen get on the road

So, where do you start? Picking a driving school that's a good fit for your teen is priority number one. Look for an instructor who's not only got the credentials but also the right approach – someone who's encouraging, clear and patient, so your teen can build solid driving skills and feel confident from the get-go.

 

Teenage girl sitting in car listening to driving instructor provide feedback

But that doesn't mean your input ends there. As a parent, your backup is invaluable, so make sure to cheer them on and chat through how they're getting on after their lessons. It's a bit like learning to ride a bike all over again; they'll wobble a bit at first, but knowing you're there can make all the difference.

 

Remember, it's not just about clocking up enough hours behind the wheel to pass a test. It's showing them you trust them, that you believe in their ability to make smart choices, and just giving them that nudge they need to find their own way. Sure, teaching them to navigate the motorway and react to sudden surprises on the road counts, but it's the confidence and independence that come with it that really matter.



Creating a Safe and Trusting Environment - teaching your child to drive

It is possible to teach your child to drive by yourself or alongside a driving instructor for extra practice as long as you meet certain requirements. It's also important to use a safe car and create a calm learning environment, without pressure. Start with short drives in a reliable vehicle that is easy to maneuver on quiet roads to build their confidence gradually. Keep the mood light and supportive--because every mistake is a stepping stone to becoming a seasoned driver. It's about making this learning curve as smooth as you safely can. Here are 7 key tips to teaching your teen to drive:

  1. Make sure your teen is insured to drive your car

  2. Ensure that you meet the requirements to teach your teen

  3. Speak with your teen's instructor regularly about what your child needs to practice. If their instructor does not feel they are ready to go out with you, wait until they say it's ok

  4. Practise on roads your teen is familiar with. This might be their route to school or the local supermarket

  5. Plan your route ahead so that you can give your teen clear instructions in plenty of time

  6. Try to stay calm and patient.

  7. Check that your car is in good condition before every trip


Two sat in car driving through residential streets

 

The Emotional Gearshift

Passing on the responsibilities of driving to your child is bound to provoke a swirl of feelings, both for you as a parent and for your teen. It is a momentous milestone in their journey to adulthood and an equally significant moment in your role as a parent. The shift from passenger to pilot of their own vehicle marks a new chapter where your guidance becomes critical.

 

Engaged and meaningful conversations about road safety cannot be overstated. Discuss the fundamental importance of adhering to speed limits, the necessity of maintaining a keen awareness of other road users, the impact of weather on driving conditions, and the paramount importance of never driving under the influence of alcohol or drugs. Frame these discussions within the context of personal and communal responsibility. You're not merely laying out the law--you're shaping their understanding of the privilege and responsibility that come with driving.

 

Peer pressure can be a potent influence on young drivers--especially in their formative driving years. Impress upon your child the virtue of assertiveness--the ability to say 'no' when coaxed into risky driving behaviours or any action that contradicts their better judgement. Let them know that true friends will respect their decisions, especially when it comes to safety.



Celebrating Independence

When the day comes, and your son or daughter passes their driving test, it’s not just a licence they've earned--it's a ticket to independence. The pride you’ll feel is immense, but so may be the worry. It's natural. Just remember the diligent groundwork you've both put in for this moment. Encourage their new-found freedom while still being there for advice--or when they need to navigate the odd tight spot. After all, your guidance doesn't stop once they have that driving licence in hand.

 

Embarking on this driving adventure together can truly be a bonding experience. It's a journey of growth, learning, and trust—for both of you. Watch with pride as your child takes to the road, all the while knowing you've done your utmost to prepare them for the path ahead.


GUEST PUBLICATION BY: Alicia Gordon


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